More intriguing but mildly unsetting parts about INFJs
1) INFJs are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. (You will only hear my voice when I feel injustice. Fighting is a waste of energy).
2) Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants. (I used this on someone tough this week and made him think that he won).
3) INFJs find it easy to make connections with others, and have a talent for warm, sensitive language, speaking in human terms, rather than with pure logic and fact. (I do this all the time. Works 80% of the time. 20% of time, people are made of stone).
4) Remember that INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge, and to not become too alarmed when they suddenly withdraw. INFJs take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days. (VERY TRUE. If I want to talk to you I will look up, otherwise I'm deep in thought and you must go away NOW.)
5) INFJs are enthusiastic in their relationships, and there is a sense of wisdom behind their spontaneity, allowing them to pleasantly surprise others. (Capable of this, but it very rarely happens because many people do not deserve it).
6) INFJs are often perfectionistic and picky. People with this personality type aren’t easily talked into something they don’t want, and if someone doesn’t pick up on that, it’s a trespass that is unlikely to be forgiven. (my dad calls this "ti ki").
7) When it comes to intimacy, INFJs look for a connection that goes beyond the physical, embracing the emotional and even spiritual connection they have with their partner. (Jialat).
